Very Sexy… Is The BLACK ROSE.  Aware of my earthly MORTALITY, Aware of immortality beyond the physical body, the BLACK ROSE to me doesn’t mean death but forbidden, exotic, sensual, taboo as in the rarest find you will ever find.  When using these words some may feel ‘some kinda way’, the ‘clutching pearls’ of  ’I would never’ but some like myself would never-not. Open-Mindedness has it merits.

Flowers are very meaningful.  The gesture when given – you are thought about, cared for and more.  The Black Rose is really non-existent, created by Botanist and if not created  THE DARK RED Rose  is considered black by some -Black Magic Roses or Bacarra Roses. Beautiful are the dark red rose, the violet but the black ( silken ) mixed in with the red bouquet, dark red, violet or just black yea very FETISH VU U to me – others.  Mixing in the created with fresh cut flowers just have an essence where the aroma  and view is unmatched.

The aroma of Roses with the aromas of two people enjoying each others company, candles low, music set, the quiet, the conversation,  it is a VU U moment.  As an adult, the vibe should be set for an evening of FETISH DELIGHTS.  The funny thing about FETISHES it is not always the automatic ‘ready set go’.  The tone must be set, casting cares away.  Most fetishes are enacted because the person is most times in control of their everyday life -escapism is found.  Finding yourself in a rut from the day to day, the routine of sex or making love with a steady partner – it is time for seduction.  A refreshing change.

Essentials For An Evening Of Seduction*

*Black Candles w/ a Colored Candle, no more than six

*Incense the elongated kind requiring less re-lighting

* A nice bottle/s of Riesling, extra dry Champagne

*Forbidden Rice which looks purplish in color when cooked

*Acorn Squash hallowed out w/ rice in; great presentation

*Carrots are good with this rice

*Oysters/Lobster/Steak/Quail/Red Snapper

If you are porous ladies and gentlemen whereas the seafood is going to dominate and interfere with the intimate times, skip altogether.  Do the Steak, the Quail or if a vegan, just add another veggie.  If not porous carry on.

*Black Forest Cake – so dark, decadent fits the mood…

*Fruit by the bowl to take to the intimate destination

*Apple slices, pineapple slices, bananas, grapes, strawberries…

*Sorbet to clean the palette

*Chilled out music

Sometimes instrumentals are the best. Keeps you focus rather than singing the lyrics you know.  Unless you are focused with singing with enough swag to cut it off than sing the whole song  don’t do it -laughing. For the Romantic Goth types and those open to more than the ‘Quiet Storm’ flows, some ‘Massive Attack’, ‘Enigma’, even ‘Evanessence’ could really ignite the night.  Below for those lovers of  hot dripping candle wax in a sexy safe physical relationship the BOOTY PARLOR’S Don’t Stop Massage Candle is exquisite.  Now some who like to live on the wild side and use candles not designed for fetish play, taking the risk for some scarring or burns, which rarely happens carry-on. For those that don’t want to risk the regular candle drips this suggestion is just for you.

It definitely sets the scene with the Black Roses Fetish.

It’s been quite a minute since doing a KUM SUTRA THIS post hope you enjoyed.  The mystique  in  this world, some of them too broad to even go into detail with has always been a part of my life. The wonderment of various things, personally, professionally – just who Iam.  There’s nothing dark about connections with depth between two people, not just a fling or casual hooking up – my opinion.  Final perceptions of a rose such as the Black Rose is of the individual.  Should you live your life more on an upward sort of way, the view would be more positive.  The opposite is quite the tragedy to me. Kudos to those with open minds.  Responsible character letting the Festish whatever it may be, be a part of your life but in no way have you out of control of your life. Until next time…

you’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE