THE CLOSE UP: The Sunset Of McChrystal And Hastings

 

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The Closeup…

As the sunset approaches on General McChrystal’s career in the military there has been much talk about being on the record and off the record – as far as interviews go.   Michael Hastings exposed the inappropriate remarks of General McChrystal’s regarding his ranking superiors in Rolling Stone.  Hastings has gone on record calling the relationship between the President and McChrystal as ‘complicated’.   In my opinion, Hastings is being kind.

 

Hastings candid and very infamous profile interview with certain scandal associated with it, takes a not so suprising turn.   The resignation, the retirement of General McChrystal has  caused Michael Hastings to defend himself.   Hastings in my opinion doesn’t FULLY OWN his contribution of the said events – the consequences, aftermath of his interview. 

“You’re talking to me? You’re calling me a snitch eh?”

MAKING THE ROUNDS*

The Colbert Report“I didn’t fire McChrystal. The White House fired McChrystal. I believe they used this opportunity to get rid of someone they weren’t happy with.” -Hastings 

The article written by journalist Hastings was titled, ‘The Runaway General’.  According to Hastings he says, ” I knew I had some decent material to work with, but I’m surprised at the level of involvement.” ( The Obama Admin ) What was suppose to be a two day trip to spend time in Paris after gaining access for the interview with McChrystal, turned into a month long stay.

The question has arised about the ethics of Hastings. Was McChrystal and Co fully aware their candid and colorful remarks would be put forth for the world to see, for their superiors to see?  At any time did McChrystal and Co say to Hastings clearly and irrevocablly this is ‘off’ record, this is ‘on’ record?

 

HASTINGS ( quote )

I didn’t have the Matt Drudge press hat on, but everything short of that it was pretty obvious I was a reporter writing a profile of the general for Rolling Stone. It was always very clear.

*Quoted responses comes from the source Newsweek

http://www.newsweek.com/2010/06/22/rolling-stone-author-discusses-general-mcchrystal-interview.html

IMO ( In my opinion )

To suggest on any level as a seasoned, professional journalist  you aren’t aware of  the magnitude of information, the power you have once given access to someone or something that’s gonna change the normal order of things is unbelievable.  You absolutely need more people to believe you.  For every person that believes you have no idea the kind of impact you would have on obtaining this kind of information from McChrystal and Company, there are three to that one who won’t believe you. 

Right now I am being kind.

Over the years of my life, I’ve seen where journalist have uncovered stories that have rocked a small town, to a big city.  Uncovered stories have made an impact on a statewide to worldwide level.  These type of findings are brought to the public because that journalist owned the findings. 

Am I saying their ethics were admirable?  Not at all.  I am not sure what was given permission to be on the record, or off the record.  At the end of it all, the journalist makes the call to go forward with what they have.   Hastings in my opinion is not a snitch.  Considerable time was spent, and it was clear he was there to report.  What is not admirable is Hastings inability to own his actions till the very end.  I feel he knew full well like anyone would know the weight this interviewed carried. 

You have a highly respected General, selected by the President Of The US and he reveals his innermost feelings to a journalist who is there to report not make friends.  Someone’s lines were blurred and in my opinion it wasn’t Hastings.  If it was Hastings, this moment in time would have never been greenlighted for review, fact checks, approval and print.

To suggest The Obama Administration needed to rid themselves of  this General by any means necessary, this suggest in my opinion Hastings doesn’t feel his work  worthy of the time, effort, skill to get up close and personal and more.  Hastings sir, it looks as if you don’t fully own up.  The profile piece turned into more than a profile.  Good journalism at best.

RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

Codes among journalist are ever present.   Depending on who you are, the kind of relationship you have with a journalist, the one rule of thumb to remember – codes of conduct vary for the situation more times than staying the same for the person ( s ).   In other words  if you don’t want something repeated, no matter the longevity, speaketh not.  Pretty sane and straight forward.

In my years as a journalist, I’ve respected my codes of what is on or off record.  I love up close and personal moments. With these moments carry much responsibility.  I feel the magnitude is greater to uncover something  that should not be public consumption. 

Knowing this happens more times than not,  I let my integrity shine through.  On the record, off the record is a part of the conversation before, during and after the call.  To be very straight-forward, everyone is not going to be of this nature.

I feel going forward the military will be more cautious with the up close and personal interviews.  I don’t feel they will drastically sever ties with the media but  caution, yes.  Over the years the media has been a point of reference for situations good and bad happening.  Support for the  troops, is the good intentions of many in the media family.   General McChrystal and Company failed to use clear judgment when it came to respecting their codes of conduct and respecting the Office of The President.

If there is a problem on any level, it should be discussed with the powers that be,  give reccomendations, and take the feedback in stride.  When you want to make it personal about your boss, the superiors, that should be done amongst those you trust not with the media around.  Common Sense 101 wasn’t present.

Hastings,  the look right now is not cool.  Own your actions because the Office Of The President has owned theirs by bringing in another General to lead in Afghanistan.  This cover story given to Rolling Stone was an exclusive, EYES WIDE OPEN exclusive.

I often refer back to Kurt Loder  on the media:

Loder’s philosophy on the people he reports on is that:

“You shouldn’t make friends. It’s not a good thing to be friends with people you’re covering. There’s just no point in doing it. It’s tempting, but they’re not going to consider you their friend anyway. They just know that you’re somebody that can do something for them. So you shouldn’t really flatter yourself that they want to be your buddy. They don’t… They want you for some reason or other, and you just have to fend that off all the time. And you can’t really cover people critically that you’re friends with. How would that work? That would be bad. So you always have to keep that in mind”.

Rather poetic with Loder once being at Rolling Stone.

Well said Kurt Loder and I will end on that note.

You’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE 

 

Kum Sutra Moment: Liquid Virgin

TIGHTEN UP ON YOUR RESEARCH

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Curiosity keeps you informed.  Curiosity keeps things FRESH and EXCITING in the bedroom or wherever you connect physically with someone – or ones. LIQUID VIRGIN is the focus for this post.  Without further adieu -IT WORKS.

http://www.romanticgifts.com/bp15150.html

It works if used correctly -temporary tightening only.

 Liquid Virgin is vaginal contraction lubricant.  You can find this product at most Adult Stores that cater to the sexual needs of adults.  Does it work Bebe? YES IT DOES.  I must stress CAUTION when using this product when it comes to application.  You should use no more than four drops MAX or your partner will be ‘bruised’ and the sexual bliss -faded.

- FINITO.

I was introduced to LIQUID VIRGIN at a TOY/FETISH party my girlfriend was having.  She was a part of an affiliate proram.  It was an absolute great party, she was the perfect host.  We played the ‘truth or dare’ games,  other games, great music, great appetizers, it was really a great party, had a blast!  I was the winner of one of the games and I received a GIFT BASKET full of goodies. 

One of  the goodies was LIQUID VIRGIN. 

I definitely favor this product to women who have had children, women who have a not so tight vaginal wall.  The price on Liquid Virgin is $10.00 in most boutiques online and offline.  If you are old enough to remember the days of CHINA SHRINK CREAM, Liquid Virgin will serve the purpose too. Personally I didn’t need the drops because… I just didn’t.  ( laughing )

liquid virgin pillow packs available too

I gave the gift basket to a friend who just had twins, total three children.   According to the friend who was suffering in the bedroom because of the vaginal wall  not being tight enough, she felt it was a Godsend.  You know I was very curious as to what the results were.  During a brunch with the girls, she gave us a minute by minute account of  her experience.  The results for her and her husband, they both felt the pleasing results. 

View image detailHOW TO FINESSE LIQUID VIRGIN…

You should lay flat on your back on your bed or a flat surface.  Make sure you open your vaginal walls, then squeeze and release the liquid virgin inside.  It should flow inside of your vagina evenly with you being in control 100%.  Very important information – DO NOT GO PAST FOUR DROPS.  Wipe residual product with a clean hand towel.  Unless you have a very, I dunno obstructionism vaginal looseness, you should feel the effects -didn’t know how to quite put that into words without uber offending someone -boing.

I’ve spoken to other women who did not follow directions, using more than four drops and the experience wasn’t good at all.  The vagina shrinked too much whereas it caused pain and tearing for both man and woman -OMG not a good look or moment.  You would want to follow instructions to the letter dahlings, to the letter.  If embarrassed to tell your partner you are using the product, use drops a few hours before the action happens but honesty is the best policy in case your partner is sensitive to products, which could possibly break them out in a rash. I truly don’t feel irritation is the norm, so you can be very silent with it.  What you drop stays as a drop, nobody has to know this but you.  ( Pretty cool pun right?) I see you blushing.  Definitely this is a product I would use if I um… ever needed it. 

For private shopping, online is the best choice.  Add some spice, LV style.

You’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE

BET Awards 2010 Super Scoops By BEBE

THE DEJA SCOOP

THE 2010 BET AWARDS Live In LA 8pm est 6pm pacific

Okay, you are getting news from everywhere! Come Monday you will be seeing photos — some the same, others exclusive.   LIVE IN LA I am giving MY BET SCOOPS.  It’s FUN TIMES in LA, very glad I came!  Everyone has been going IN on Roscoe’s Chicken & Waffles.  I mean why not?  Delish!    Taffic in LA?  I just don’t see how I can complain about my city anymore cause the traffic out here is so… LA.

BEBE BET SCOOPS*

Drama goes on at every award show, so I don’t like it when everyone thinks it is a  BET thing.  Personally I haven’t seen any DRAMA but everyone’s definition of DRAMA is different.  Everyone has been cordial, professional, it’s good vibes out here.  Many egos are checked at the door, so for me to say I’ve seen DRAMA – nah I haven’t.

TRIBUTES!  Prince will be honored and his fans have some OPINIONS on who should serenade Prince.  I just want to CALM everyone down because those who are TRUE PRINCE FANS, know that he is having a say in how he is going to be presented.  That is a FACT.  Remember this is not THE PRINCE show but the BET Awards, so expectations on UBER TRIBUTE is not going to be the case.  I am told by a good source Prince selected those persons we will see tonight to serenade him.  What is kinda not a good source is that he only selected females.  I won’t confirm that part but that is what I heard.

UPDATE* females only, confirm, good looking out source

Trey’s version of Purple Rain was not included, he’s on his own for that one.

I say this much, it would be great for someone to pull together a night whereas PRINCE could be honored.  Then and only then I feel FANS/STANS would feel at ease about a wider group of people giving tribute.  That’s not going to happen tonight but I do feel it’s going to be decent.

Michael Jackson will be given tribute tonight on the BET Awards, so look for a great tribute according to Stephen G Hill.  Stephen is pretty candid so I definitely rock his word on this.  I am very excited to see the tribute because my SCOOP SOURCE says Chris Brown has been tapped to give tribute, which I feel is a good look.  Everyone goes through their moments, so to just not showcase his talents, I feel is wack.  Good looking out for BET on this move.

AU NATURALNESS SCOOP

Have you seen the pics of the celebs coming out for BET? OMG, they look so good overall!  Yesterday at the Radio Remote everyone was downplaying their fabulousness! There wasn’t heavy makeup, people looked good and I loved that! So for those who come on the blogs, the websites and just talk all the noise about ‘What Lies Beneath’ the makeup, there’s fab skin!

Wanna take a look at some of  what I am expressing?

http://betawards.bet.com/photo_galleries

Oh yea, some people may look a lil tired but parties have been phenom!

Fans have been great!  BET had done an excellent job in having fans interact with their favorite celebs! I am gonna also give it up for the SHOE GAME out here!  My Gawd! My Gawd! Hands down, the shoe game from the ladies and the men have been straight FIYAH!

The Pre-Show is on now, love it!  Have you checked out the 360 Cam they have this year? Very nice, love that alot! The Post-Show is gonna be great too!  Celebs from old school, new school, TI’s Back, Prince in the building, Nicki Minaj performing, Chris Brown, Janelle Monae, Patti Labelle, Monica, Kanye West and so much more!  One time for everyone appearing!

I definitely GIVE MUCH LOVE to ALL MEDIA FAMILY doing what they do, doing what we do to bring you diverse opinions, coverage and so much more!  I most definitely don’t take what I do for granted and I try to do my best to maintain responsibility for what I put out there in the Universe.   Having a great time, working, networking and representing 1021Online.com! Enjoy the show, that’s the only reason to tune in as far as I am concerned!

Look for Trey Songz Sneak Peak REALITY SHOW right after The BET Awards, you don’t wanna miss that!  Now let me go enjoy!

AFTERSHOW THOUGHTS*

Did you like the show everyone?

I liked the show!  I must say GURU ( Rest In Peace ) of GANGSTARR should have been included in the memorial tributes but things happen.  Prince serenades were great and YES once again he approved them.   Esperanza Spalding wasn’t on my radar to perform but I am  still geeked!  Prince get’s mucho mucho more love for me on that pic and his words.   Prince said the future of music is in good hands.  I felt that needed to be said by one of the best that ever did it.  Prince also stated that those artist of today didn’t need to do what he did back in the day to make it happen.  Prince admitted to the world he felt some chapters in his life were mistakes.  I love him for that!  When you are at one with yourself, when you on that each one teach one, you can do that.  It was a moment many got and I thank you for that Prince.  

I love the work of  Esperanza Spalding.  She is so talented.  I hope many check out  her catalog of  music.  If in Charlotte during September, she will be performing at The Pride Sunset Jazz Festival in our business based city, Charlotte North Carolina.  Janelle Monae well done lady, Alicia  and Miss Patti!  Chris Brown was the Phoenix!  His performance the tribute for Michael Jackson was great.  No one with half a pea brain was expecting him to be flawless like Michael but definitely he was awesome.  The emotion was heartfelt, it was his moment and he owned it.  Queen Latifah did such a good job.  Hosting isn’t as easy as some think.  Kanye West performance and visuals were stunning!  With Kanye opening for The BET Awards, definitely a good move.  Again, the visuals were stunning!  

Eminem is on some soul searching too.  I definitely am feeling the vibe.  Usher did his thing, singing LIVE with the background track.  I love the song, ‘There Goes My Baby’.  Usher get’s respect in the businesss as a veteran and it showed in his performance.  I loved the moments of Nia Long and Trey Larenz.  That LOVE JONES poetic moment from the movie Love Jones was awesome.  Many didn’t get the moment.  It goes to show, each of us in the media family has a responsibility to bring on the ‘each one, teach one’.   I make it my business to have 1021Online.com connect the past with the present.  Tyrese did a great performance for the Teddy Pendergrass  performance.  Nicki Minaj was all in white rocking ROCHAS and the orange hair.  Minaj was rocking more outfits and more wigs.  Nicki  Minaj was a winner during the show, performed, sent a few subliminals about bringing women together in the midst of the beef happening with Lil Kim -everyone was on that speech listening intently.  Many went in on twitter about her ‘fighting for women’, saying no thanks to the Barbie Movement.  Minaj also got a side eye on twitter and blogs for lip synching during her performances -MOVING ON. 

One time for the women over 35 rocking great bodies, showing great class and LOVESEXY.  I just loved that very much.  Between the talk at the BET Awards, looking at my twitter timeline, the men were loving it too.  Goes to show, slutty, crutty isn’t always the appeal -MOVING ON.  Monica is also a winner and she blazed during her performance ‘Everything To Me’.  I was again geeked, with Deniece ‘Niecey’ Williams coming out to finish the song with Monica.  If  you don’t know ‘Everything To Me’  is inspired by Williams classic song ‘Silly’.  Trey Songz brought his mom along as his guest for the evening.  Twitter and blogs went nutz because yes, she looks so good, so youthful.  Trey is a proud son too!  Trey was a winner tonight and he performed.  El Debarge performance  was very refreshing.  I loved how TI and Tiny was getting into the groove when the camera cut to them in the audience. It was good seeing El Debarge perform his hit songs.  Yes that was a crush and I got it back.  Thank you Sir El Debarge.  Drake was a winner, he performed getting the crowd excited as well.  

The tribute to Haiti was great.  Fred Hammond, Yolanda Adams, Kirk Franklin, Kim Burrell, Marvin Sapp and Karen Clark Sheard performed.  Prince definitely was feeling KAREN CLARK SHEARD’S runs, rifts and powerhouse vocals and I was too! They all did a great job.  The Humanitarian Award went to John Legend.  Legend was very gracious in his acceptance speech, definitely a classy moment.  J Cole, Rapper who is signed to Jay-Z’s Rock Nation had his moment to perform.  I wish they didn’t cut away from those vieiwing on tv, he was awesome.  Look out for J Cole, Fayetteville NC STAND UP!   Jay-Z and Beyonce’, The Carters didn’t attend this years award show but they were both winners. 

To say many people wasn’t feeling the show, many stayed tuned in.

You’ve been Scooped & Deja Vu’d,

BEBE

 

In Memory Of Michael Jackson

Befitting is a song I feel Michael and his family would appreciate, which I felt would be great to post in a poetic form.  It is a hauntingly beautiful song from a woman Michael truly admired, the late Minnie Riperton. 

 Return To Forever…  

Days… floating round the bend
Thru the rainbow’s end
Return to forever
Nights
… ring around the moon
ending all too soon
Return to forever
When we reach the Autumn’s bend
Will we wish that we were young again
Laughing in the face of time

If only we knew now, what we did then
Clouds… billow cross the sky
Changing as they fly
Return to forever
Waves… rush to kiss the shore
Once and nevermore

Go back, return to forever
How I wish that you were mine
And we could live again that summertime
To be that happy just this once again
If only we felt now as we did
then
Child… holding out your hand
Please try to understand
Return to forever, return to forever
   

 Written By  (Rudolph – Waldman)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRmWDwqX854&feature=related

FOR MICHAEL JACKSON ( 1958-2009 ), YOU ARE MISSED 

 BEBE

     

       

Michael Jackson Remembered

Remembering Michael Jackson 1958-2009

One year ago today, it was as if the world came to a standstill over the breaking news that Michael Jackson died.  The world of fans stood still -  absolutely unbelievable.  The month of  June is very, very significant to me. June 18, I was involved in a fatal car accident that took the life of my grandfather, leaving me emotionally scarred,  with some physical scarring that healed.  I had to watch the life leave my grandfather, and watch as medical professionals cut the collasped dash of my car apart to pull my mother from the accident.  She suffered a broken neck and foot, airlifted along with me.  Life as fleeting as it is, can go from one extreme to the next.

We survived a car accident that should have taken all three lives according to reports and specialists.  My mother and I were placed in a hospital suite type of room the entire stay.  What a way to celebrate Father’s Day and losing our Patriarch right?  Like Michael, my grandfather a public figure touched many lives outside of the family.  As we watched the news in and out of the effects of the pain relievers, the announcement was made on national television The King Of Pop died.  Here was another moment in time whereas someone we both admired and loved in our own way had died.

I cried for him, admist my own pain and loss days earlier.

Love does live on, and our loved ones yes they live on.

We honor them by living on and being the best we can.

June 2009 would always be unforgettable is so many ways.

 A YEAR LATER

You never get over losing someone you love, you get through it.  I’ve always heard this statement given by the wise and wise they were.  They say when you keep on living, you will understand it better by and by.  I believe that.  Michael Jackson’s death is still unbelievable for many people -MILLIONS.  

I don’t think we will ever get over losing such a talented man, humorous, sympathetic to those less fortunate than him.  He showed humility and he showed fierceness during the times it counted most.  Through many public moments good and bad, Michael Jackson showed many of us to keep going no matter what anyone does or says about you.  These days many people of the celebrity world and non celebrity world could take cue on how Michael handled the press.  Many times he stayed silent, and the press hasn’t always been kind to Michael Jackson in life and yes even in death.  Today celebs feel they need to justify what is written about them on the blogs, on social net, and more.  Wanna be a sincere form of flattery, try Michael Jackson style.

I find comfort like many others to enjoy the good moments Michael Jackson gave to all of us.  Everyone has their special moments, their special songs, their favorite pictures of Michael Jackson.  He loved his children fiercely, he gave so much of himself to his fans, he showed love to his family.

I am sure  Michael Jackson marveled or was amused at many performers   and singers after him emulating his style in dance, music and of course  the unforgettable fashion.  We have the music, the memories to honor the life of Michael Jackson who is now at peace.  I am a true believer the spirit lives on in another realm so far away but yet so close.  

Wherever you are dear sweet Prince, The King Of Pop, Rock On.

Indeed many fans all over the world, will forever ‘Rock With You’.

For the fans Of Michael, this day we have been deja vu’d,

BEBE

FACE ON: Product Review Phisoderm

When I was a teenager I use to faithfully use Phisoderm and the effects were amazing.  As life would have it, you feel the need to fix what is not broken, so you try other products.  There is nothing wrong with that kind of logic when whatever else you are trying gives good results.  What I’ve found works for me is various products for my skin, especially changing of seasons.

I decided to give Phisoderm another look for the summer.   I picked up two products.  One is the anti-blemish body wash that is good for the face and the body.  The salicylic acid is great for blemish control.  The fragrance is very light, very  ‘green’ and that makes me very pleased.  Heavy scented body washes in the summer is not quite my thing.  I want nothing interfering with my personal fragrance when staying in or stepping out.  The gel facial wash is great to use as well.   I have them both, second week using, no issues.

Official Site: Phisoderm

You can find these great products online or at most of your local marts where a variety of facial/body cleasners are found. Let me know how it goes.

You’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE

HBO’S ENTOURAGE SEASON 7

ENTOURAGE

Entourage Season 7 Returns Sunday June 27 On HBO!

I am a HUGE FAN!  I am not gonna just post all day how big a fan I am because there are thousands more like me.  It’s the Entourage Family being very DEEP like that!  Everyone has their favorite episodes.  One for me is the ‘Joshua Tree’, ‘Daytrippers’ episode starring Eric Roberts. 

I laughed so hard! The boys are back with a NEW SEASON.  There has been talk about a possible movie in the works.  If so, I hope it is truly thought out to bring the best!

Spread Entourage Love, it’s gonna be a GREAT SEASON!

http://www.hbo.com/entourage/index.html

Just Like Deja Vu, You’ve bee deja vu’d,

BEBE

THE MAD HATTER FILES: McChrystal Rising

General McChrystal was relieved from his job.  
For many this decision wasn't a shock.  
It gives way for those opposing The Obama Administration 
even more and shockingly some of the comments from 
the known op-posers have been supportive.  
General David Petraeus is in, General McChrystal is out.
"I believe that it is the right decision for our 
national security." "The conduct represented in the 
recently published article does not meet the standard 
that should be set by a commanding general." 
-President Barack Obama


THE ROLLING STONE INTERVIEW
http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/news/17390/119236
A Commanding Officer in my opinion should be more 
tactful, respect the position he has ranked to, 
respect those he has to report to, deal with the issues 
he has in a better form than The Rolling Stone 
( go to the source of your grievance ), be the example 
to those who follow the lead of the Commanding Officer,  
and much more.  Disrespectful is just disrespectful.  
In the land of the enemy, it is no way in good form 
to have this public disrespect for the leader of your Country.  
I am not saying this because it is President Barack Obama.  
If this was any other President, it doesn't look good at all.  
I am sure many had issues with other  Presidents but what 
happened ON RECORD with General McChrystal is just unacceptable.
Many people who go to work on the daily aren't so keen on 
their bosses, the superiors.  Best way to get relieved 
of your job, go ON RECORD in the most public way possible, 
firing off at the mouth against your boss. If you have 
the whole KICK ROCKS MENTALITY,  expect that mentality back.  
While many will play politics on the decision made, 
I think of the troops over in Afghanistan. A new leader 
needed to come forth, division is not what keeps our troops 
safe.  This sign of weakness only strengthens the enemy to 
strike more.  There is a way to present your grievances 
to whom you have the grievance with. The whole interview was at 
a point of no return.  I am sure when the silence comes after 
a while, McChrystal will be looking at the interview in a 
different light.   He may stand firm on what he said but the 
manner, the climate, the source for which he said it...
Regrettable and Unacceptable.
Your Thoughts? Welcomed!
BEBE

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