Academy Award Winner Halle Berry Is Single
Keeping things honest, there were leaps of joy, the heart race, proverbials ‘I told ya so’, ‘If Halle can’t keep a man who can’ type of talk, and much more. Please let me understand this correctly; My love life history is suppose to be blueprinted after Halle’s? The standard for every woman’s success rate for love is suppose to be bluprinted after Halle Berry’s?
Pathetic and it’s not Halle’s fault. She didn’t come up with this crazy ideology. Halle is living her life, minding her own and her track record for men isn’t as bad as many make it out to be. She’s been married twice, suffered in the abuse type of relationship, went across the color lines, and she has a child. Love, the obstacles of love has never evaded anyone who truly loved. To not love, that is the tragedy. Halle is living her life. As much as this may step on some toes, the accomplishments she has done surpasses the average women who criticizes much. The average women, some average women are taking to the blogs and what not feeding into their insecurities of a woman minding her own. I must give credit for those commenting men and women on how their lives and lives of others when it comes to relationships should be credited for the hi’s and low’s of themselves not anyone else. When you start going in on Halle and her relationship whether you have th insider information or not, you really have alot of time of your hands.
If this applies to you, be very offended. What do I care? It sickens me how the gloating continues. A definitive sign of a insecure woman unhappy with the circumstances of her life being joyful of someone else’s ending or happy beginnings. You call it. If not offended, definitely glad you aren’t in the number of Les Miserables.
One thing is for sure, Halle will continue on with life. I find it very refreshing how classy Gabriel Aubry kept his statement. Whatever the circumstances surrounding their breakup it is really their business. How classy was your breakups? Have you been married before? Have you dated outside of the color lines of your own race? How did that turn out? I can hear the thoughts, “It is none of your business”, “How is yours BEBE?”.
Mine is quite well, and flourishing -we’re both in the industry. What does not flourish after putting in the work, I HAVE moved on. My peace of mind and happiness means very much to me. It’s not about how someone can’t keep a man. It is about not settling for someone, keeping them around to just have someone when the relationship has run it’s course. I don’t really know, I don’t have the insider information but I feel it was a matter of the relationship running it’s course. It happens. It actually happens at a high rate for many couples no matter the race. Some decide to stay in the relationship for various reasons and most times it is based off of fear. The fear of being alone, the fear of what others will say and more.
Bravo to the woman and the man who moves on from a relationship that isn’t fully flourishing ( I am on that word big time in this post right? ) . Seriously if you aren’t at a place where you are being the best with another, the best move you can make for your life is to move on. Just because someone says you look good together, or you don’t look good together, doesn’t matter. Those reasons alone make for a weak person who bases their relationships off looks. Substance, that’s where it’s at. Even with that, if the winds should change, no matter how things once were, be free to move on. Be free to be amicable if all possible and respectful of what was once shared. Sadly enough many cannot do that but for those who do -BRAVO, BRAVA!
Remember, you are looking from the outside in. The point in this life is to be at your best more times than not, to love and when you are loved in return no matter the season that is a good thing. Nothing last forever in this life. When you understand this, you can deal better in the Throes of Life.
If you are among the cacklin hens gloating over Halle Berry’s breakup or doubting your own romantic course over Halle Berry’s romantic course, do yourself a favor and get extra doses of HAPPINESS AND REALITY ELIXRS. Where to find them? Your beautiful mind, think happy and sanely.
Halle with Nahla… she’s gonna be alright. How is your doorstep looking?
You’ve been deja vu’d,
BEBE
