30

Mar

Erykah Badu: Enchantress

No you won’t be name’n no buildings after me
My name will be mistated, surely – A.D. 2000 Erykah Badu

Amadou Diallo, respect, rip,

ENCHANTRESS,  a beautiful and charismatic woman. 

She was born a day before me, same year, many old souls came through during this time during my journey of this life.  I’ve met them and recognized the enchantress in them.  Often misunderstood, we are definitely on a conscious journey of life.  We love hard, well aware of our imperfections and we’re unforgettable for those we’ve  touched for a season or a lifetime.

WELCOME….

The Enchantress

This is part of who Erykah Badu is in my opinion and the opinion of many others worldwide.  The beauty I speak of is the inner and the enchantment is how she engages observers, admirers, supporters, cynics and those who just plainly don’t get her through the messages in song and literal spoken word.  Back with a new album NEW AMERYKAH PART II:  Return Of  The Ankh, her messages are once again clearly understood by some, diluted to ugliness by others due to lack of moving past the uncomfortable inner unresolves of self and followed fiercely by those who claim consciousness to the sake of wording, saying it loud, I ‘m ’Concious And Proud’ ( let me show you how down I am but no essence of  substance and truth in heart to back up claims ) but not Conscious enough deeply rooted and grounded in the mindframe for lifestimes work.

Wherever you are in your Conscious Journey, it is clear no matter how some spin it, Badu has  by far been consistent enough with giving us a Conscious Journey through her life  and the times of  this life we live in.  We definitely are living in some uncertain times.  In my opinion we all are witnessing a LACK OF PURITY from some in the Entertainment Industry ( all genres ), Politics, Business, Personal Life etc.  In comes Badu like so many others sending a message to the masses through Cleva wording GROUPTHINK.

groupthink=the unwritten rule that states; i will not express my true opinion if it opposes those i love and fear .i volunteer to censor me.

GROUPTHINK – Undone

It is time to be more at one with self, more truthful and I think it’s beautiful she is spreading the message loud and clear, like many before her have done and many with her are doing.  It’s a wake up call once again and it will continue with someone else in the future.   Definitely loving the vibe, the new song and video presented by Erykah Badu.  It is definitely causing a buzz.  

WINDOW SEAT VIDEO… Erykah’s Thoughts

“I was petrified while shooting this video … but liberation began to set in . I conquered many fears in that few moments . I am greatful .”  The video is already causing buzz.  There are PROS and CONS but for me the PROS are what I see.  It’s ballsy, well executed, and sends a strong message. Conscious Much?

Liberation… very freeing.  I got the video concept and message.

Window Seat… the song is infectious.  The words, the groove of the music encompasses me.  I like it very much.  Without making this post a LOVE LETTER, there are some songs from Badu I do not feel, some albums I liked more than others but I support the good in an artist, the music and the message.  For me, it’s another classic album.  We must start looking beyond what is put before us through art.  We must start looking  beyond the challenges we face and find the solutions that best fits our spirit and soul.  It’s good having new music from Badu.  I wish her well with the album.   I support pushing minds to seek more understanding in a world where many are misunderstood for doing more positives.  

I am sure many will walk away from this with much negatives but for me I do get it.  This type of nudity isn’t about the sexual but the liberation, a rebirth.  Thoughts are much welcomed here.   Some will  get Badu, others will not.  I say move with it, not against it.

I look forward to seeing a LIVE PERFORMANCE.

 ”Art is my religions” -Erykah Badu 

You don’t see the head wraps anymore because I am the head wrap. -Erykah Badu

NEW ALBUM  AVAILABLE March 30th!

You have been deja vu’d,

BEBE

  

 

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30

Mar

Body Release: Casual Sex Talk

 

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Casual Sex…

It’s not what it use to be  for many women today. 

Women are definitely in tune to fulfilling their needs, especially on the go women.  This can be quite an attractive element in the relationship.  Relationship? Yes, you read it right.  For many women long gone are the casual sex moments where he sends you on your way right after the sexual encounter has happened.  Truth be told, many women are sending the men on their way after an encounter has happened.  Truth be told many women are leaving on their own accord to catch a flight, continue on with their business committments or returning to their own place for more downtime.

When all involved are clear at all times it causes for less misunderstandings.

Many women prefer Casual Sexual Relationships to be an experience.  Both parties involved express what they want from the relationship, the boundaries not to cross, and the importance of  being friends.   Casual Sex these days doesn’t have to be cheap, with intentional actions to show no feelings are involved.

Feelings are involved when two people come together for a well-rounded pleasurable experience.  There is nothing wrong taking trips together, dining out, downtime watching movies, presenting great gifts to each other while great intense sex is happening.  Too many times the rushed more times than not relationships don’t even get to the point of  pleasure like many casual relationships do. 

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I recently had lunch with a few ladies discussing the Casual Sexual Relationship.  These women ranged from 35-47.  Two ladies were married but they started out with their husbands in CSR’s. The intrigue factor was there, the CHASE element was there, and the sex was awesome.  I asked the married ladies how long was the CSR’s before there was a commitment.  One lady said three years, another said two.  I was told emphatically it was a complete NO to carry on such a relationship longer than three years.  Definitely lines are blurred spending that much time, which at this point it is time to have a conversation.  The conversation goes like, ‘Where are we headed?’  ‘Do we stil want this?’  ‘Are we being exclusive here?’  What is it that you want, I want?”  The single women said their CSR’s were less than two years and they were of the same mindset.

Responsibility is a must.  I asked were there protected sex happening.  I received various answers.  I asked were they seeing other people during the CSR’s and all said yes.  For many people it is about being open, honest and getting your sexual needs fulfilled and the need for a casual companionship/friendship.  We all agreed friendship is important.  It’s all about being respectful in a Casual Sexual Relationship. 

I am sure those who don’t SHARE,  those who would NEVER entertain the thought BEING ONE OF MANY would never take on a Casual Sexual Relationship.  I don’t recommend it to those who are of a jealous nature, suspicious nature, those who have high expectations of committment.  I feel your options are greater when you don’t limit yourself to someone who isn’t fully vested in you.  I feel more people don’t take the time to be friends, explore their own wants and needs fully before being with someone on a one on one fully committed level.

It is not about being promiscous, it is about being in reality with self.  The ideology that women are always relationship ready is so untrue.  Being in the front row of seeing friends and family failed marriages, mostly it came from not really knowing self.  Too many times family, society places much emphasis on being married, being a couple and less on dating and seeing what your options are while finding yourself in the process.

Whatever you decide when it comes to being with someone and fulfilling desires, make safe choices.  Be true to self.  When true to self, then you can completely be true to others.  Never settle or find yourself asking more times than not what could have been, or who could have been.

You’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE 

 

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22

Mar

Healthcare Reform: Historical Musings

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Responsible Legislation Passed…

It is a Historic Moment In Time, March 21, 2010.  Healhcare Reform has passed through the House of Representatives And The Senate.  It is a Historical Moment for many Americans.  Some will walk away from this moment overjoyed, confused, angry, saddened, mixed.  One thing that is important to remember, this piece of legislature will be beneficial for many Americans who already have insurance and those wanting insurance.  When faced with a medical crisis, one of the most calming feelings is that you will not be turned away for seeking care -healthcare.  

To be informed, to really be informed one must educate themselves first on what is happening and not be led by hearsay, blatant lies, or halftruths.  This piece of legislature was available for all Americans to review.  When you are faced with misinformation, it is awesome when you know it is.  Anything less is a tragedy.  While this historical piece of legislation will not immediately go into effect, it is a powerful form of legisation for Americans.

No longer will a person be denied for pre-existing conditions, you are able to carry a child on your insurance until the age of 27, if you lose your job, you don’t have to be faced with COBRA but continue your insurance thus continuing your relationship with trusted physician, funded abortion will only happen when a mother’s life is in danger ( be informed on this ) more. 

Those who are employ 50 persons and over, they are to be covered, those working part-time ( 30 hours ) will be covered.  Truly this is a great piece of legislation that may not have the language everyone wanted but it is no less than hisotric.  Addressing more concerns will happen as times goes on but this indeed is a great step in the right direction for Americans.  

As the President stated, “This is what change looks like.”

The view right now is great to look at.  For me it is not about the party lines, it is about doing what is right for American People.  Americans we definitely won today.  Whatever side of the aisle you are on, this piece of legislature will affect you or someone you know in a good way. No one is immune to getting ill whether on a non-threating or threatening level. I won’t get political in this post or comments sent my way regarding this post.  I am expressing my opinions for a piece of legistlature that was long overdue.   I will say when trying to achieve for the greater good, there is always risks, and costs involved. Life  lessons has taught us all  this, unless in denial.   It does feel good to know more people will be able to have healthcare. Well done, Well done.

I feel this moves American in the right direction for more good to come to us as a Country.

BEBE

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21

Mar

The Art Of Seduction

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The Art Of Seduction… storytelling moments

A Room With A Lovely View

It was a night of re-enactment after three glorious years of being together as a couple.  With demanding high profile careers, living in different cities, these two people in love have had their share of trials, tribulations and triumphs.  Tonight was a night of decision.  They were taking themselves back to the night they met.  She was in his city on business.  Deciding to go solo, she booked car service to dine out and hit a few cigar bars before her am flight the next day.  Dressed in black, silken skin, signature perfume in tact, manicured fingers, tapping her elegant feet to the sounds of  Shirley Bassey, incoming was Mister Cool.  He was greeted with a familiar hello from the bartender as he took a seat at the bar.  He lit the cigar,  looked over and ‘The She’ took his breath away.

The Re-enactoment had begun…

She felt the stare, casually looking over, her heart in her mind skipped a few beats.  The corner of her lush mouth produced a smile, her eyes would not look away. Something magical was happening.

The Conversation

“You’re hauntingly beautiful.  Has anyone ever told you that?” he said.  “Yes but it never get’s old hearing it, especially from someone I’ve never met before.”  “Ah, beautiful and confident.”  “Yes and Yes.”  she said with a laugh, the unforgettable laugh that sounded like she was on the verge of a climax.  “Visiting?”  he asked.  “Something like that.”  she said.  “Business, Pleasure or both?”  he asked never taking his eyes away from her.  “I guess to answer the latter, I would have to see how this evening plays out, it is my last evening here.”  I am intrigued, he thought to himself.   “Another  drink for the lady?”   “Maybe after dinner, awaiting a table for one, this is a very popular spot.”   “George, my private dining room for the lady immediately.”  he said.   “Right away sir.  Oh sir.”  “Yes George?”  “Will you be dining with the lady?”  George asked.  “Yes he will be dining with me.”  she said smiling raising her glass to the one who made her heart skip many beats.

“I promise not to be a boring dining companion.”  he said with a smile, the unforgettable smile.  “I have a feeling boring is not a part of who you are.” she said with a smile getting up from the bar taking his hand.  “I have a feeling this is the start of something wonderful.”  They smiled together making their way to the private dining area for a pleasurable dining experience filled with great food, the classic flirting and well rounded conversations on many subjects.

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The Night Of Decision

The re-enactment held so many memories of three years gone by.  They were faced with the decision closing the deal on being with each other in one city.  It felt right, the time was right to close the deal.  After going down memory lane, they danced to their favorite song after a beautiful and fulfilling dinner at the place they first met.  With their careers solid enough, they would share their worlds with each other.  She would move to his city, maintain her accomodations in her city.  On some holidays and summers they would be in her city, having the best of both their worlds.  They ended the night making love, knowing they would embark together on a journey full of discovery.  The Art of Seduction when respected in it’s finest form can bring two people together in a memorable way.

You have been deja vu’d,

BEBE

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17

Mar

GIFT ME! COME ON, TEA ME!

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I  am a coffee chica.  I love my coffee but what a find,  what a treasure  I found out and about today in the city ( Charlotte NC ) with my mother.  Overcast skies adorned the day, no raindrops, just good vibes and gourmet food shopping.

OMG! Omigod this is one of the best shopping sprees for me! Ask anyone who knows me.  I love gourmet food shopping!  Wanna GIFT ME? Gourmet me!  I was just adding things in the basket along with my mom’s cool finds and along the way I fell head over heart in love with  Numi. Numi Organic Teas Bamboo Treasure Chest. For my drinking pleasure and yours ( if you indulge ) enjoy 18 assorted flavors.  Chai lovers you won’t be disappointed.  I am so tea’d in love!

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The box is divine, tea bags are packaged with detailed description, ready for the tea lover to enjoy!

As I complete the great post, I am sipping Golden Chai: Fair Trade Certified™, Certified Organic Spiced Assam Black Tea.  I cannot wait to explore the other flavors.  I will be adding another tresaure chest to my heart because I am so in love with Numi Organic Teas.  GIFT YOURSELF.

You’ve been deja vu’d,

BEBE

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16

Mar

FLYY GIRLS

 

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Toast to you FLYYGIRL! The FG’s who cause no SPIN to create the chatter.   Your name pops up in many a mouths, no effort on your part.  You handle your business, living life, opportunities you take and create.  Toast to you! 
Everyone is entitled to their opinions about someone but one thing that seems to be trending are the females who consistently make comments, yet in their subconscious they are in search for someone to explain how some females obtain the life they want.  Answer? 
What is for YOU will be for YOU.  What is for someone else is for them.

Subconcious Rantings

What does he see in her?

She needs to gain some weight, just saying.

What she does for a living is easy, I can do that.

She needs to find another hairstyle, I hate women that wear weave.

She’s not all that to me.

Why is he marrying her?

Why did he marry her?

She’s a slut that is why she get’s all those gifts and ballers.

She’s shady, sleeping her way to the top.

I heard she went to __________ ( location ) that bitch!

I could go on and on but you get the jest of the inside the head rants, which many of the rants  goes from the subconcious to chatter among friends, comments on blogs, messageboards, definitely a vicious cycle.  You only make yourself miserable if this applys to you.  No one is immune to being opinionated.  Human nature I suppose but when you check yourself on the daily or frequently you can be less destructive to yourself.

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People like who they like.  Give men credit for being into a woman more than for physical.  Surely everyone knows in the end it’s the personality, it’s the chemistry that brings two people together to last for as long as it lasts.  There is also an old saying, ‘Looking On The Outside In’ and another old saying ‘What Glitters, Isn’t Always Gold’.  When you spend too much time worrying about how someone else is enjoying the life they are living in your eyes, you are wasting precious moments.   Find what happiness you can in life.  First with self, then with others and the things that will make your life fabulous.  Life is to be LIVED, so LIVE! Flyygirls, stay fly!  Cheers to you!

You have been deja vu’d,

BEBE

 

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16

Mar

God!Make Me A Beautiful Baker

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God, Make Me A Beautiful Baker… Thank you in advance.

This bonafide FOODIE is a excellent cook.  I test recipies, always experiementing with various textures, spices, just collaboing it up! Entertaining is always a joy when I can, no pressure in the kitchen.

When I cook, it is GOOD THERAPY.

Baking calls for intense times for me.  God is needed in the kitchen because this gal is a 4 star out of 10 for baking.  I follow the recipie, the results are great but the 4 star is for the whole experience.  It’s not pretty everyone!   Measuring, kneading, dash here, dash there I feel like a ’fish outta water’.

I get through it all ( not the gal to go down in flames ) but I admit I want to be at the level of baking that I am at cooking.  I admire the baker, especially the from scratch baker.  Desserts are awesome.  Do it yourself multiply the awesome feeling by infinity is what I want to feel.  I will get there.

I am optimistic.

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SAVORY AND SWEET

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I want to be able to eyeball some measurements in baking like I do in cooking.  Yes I do know baking is more exact but I do want a more casual experience -NON-BAKE MODE.  I’ve done  the carrot cake, red velvet, lemon squares, key lime, various cookies, but I want to do more.  I want to do it big, create some great dishes, test, test test the recipies, a higher level of baking is desired.  I promise not to bonker myself out but with ‘God’s Help’, this will be the year I become…

THE BEAUTIFUL BAKER, where everything is lovely in the kitchen like my cooking experience.  God they say is everywhere. My kitchen? Absolutely!

You have been deja vu’d,

BEBE

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14

Mar

Hopeful Moments…

By now many have read the Post ‘Bishes Please’.

Definitely many females need to open their eyes to the course of life they are on.  I am not without responsibility too.  I too must check myself and I do this to make sure I am doing what I need to do, to be a better me.  If all writer’s with integrity write on the comfortable subjects, subjects that makes us more popular with the masses that appeals to a generation to fail ( conscious onr non-conscious level ) , definitely we’ve failed with the power of words and deeds. 

Life is fleeting for many.  Whatever the aspirations in your life, always maintain Character.  At the end of the day, your Character is check is key.  Thanks to everyone who visits, enjoy the blog, more posts very soon.

BEBE

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