The Rewind On Chris And Rihanna

“I found love on a two way street, and lost it on a lonely highway”

I could sing to this song that was a remake in my time by the great singer from DC Stacy Lattisaw.  It was the year 1981.  I was only ten years old, just singing the verses, the hooks to the top of my voice.  Down the road of  life as I experienced the ’love’ phases, it became clear to me on a big reality.

LOVE CAN CHANGE LIKE THE BLOWING OF THE WIND…

Chris and Rihanna has experienced the Love On A Two Way Street and it played out on ’Front Street’ ( public square ) for the world to see. As with any breakup, those people who care, those people who rejoice in your pain showing a faux face of care come at you on what you should do for your life. Many people are quick to say, “don’t go back”, the famous “if I was you” talks.

From Rihanna’s revelation to the recent interviews she caught Chris getting a text from someone else and she spazzed on him.  Haven’t many of us been there?  At the moment of realizing your lover is slipping away before your eyes, lying to you before your eyes when you full well know what is happening can put you on major hysterics.  Sure we’d all would love to keep our cool demeanor in intense situations but most times it doesn’t happen.

During the interviews Rihanna gave, I was waiting to hear of more incidents where Chris Brown got physical with her.  I was waiting on the pattern of abuse but Rihanna gave no indication of a history of abuse.  I felt this was a good thing for Chris Brown and I am glad that Rihanna didn’t go down that dark road of trying to create a pattern on him. Lying helps no one in these types of situations.   The more Rihanna questioned Chris about the text, the more he felt cornered.  He was cornered and we all know what being cornered does to someone.  They either walk off ( he couldn’t in the car ), ignore the constant spaz till arriving at the final destination ( he didn’t ).

Chris went down the wrong path and there is no excuse for it at all for beating a woman.  Rihanna said, “He had no soul in his eyes.  Just blank”.   Rihanna also went on to say she wished him well in his career and she still cares about him just like he said about her.  Some of you blank stare.

I see you unbelievables…

Respecting  the power of love, letting love run its course is the best way to move on from someone.  In my opinion, it is mature on both their parts to acknowledge the lingering feelings of love.  At this time in their lives it is best to move on, clear minds, focus on careers, enjoy family and friends.  They aren’t the first couple to go through Domestic Abuse.  Time heals all wounds physically, mentally and emotionally.  It is a time for healing for both of them and we’d all be better to give them their moment to move past all the things they have been through. 

BEBE

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Published:
November 8, 2009 / 5:54 pm
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Deja Vu U's, Fame, Folly, Foolery
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